WHAT IS FUN......????

FUN IS LEARNING HOW TO ENJOY WHEREVER YOU ARE AND WHATEVER YOU ARE DOING, NO MATTER HOW STUPID IT SEEMS TO BE

This is a hard one for many people, but it is a key to having fun.  The idea is to make anything fun, no matter how weird or dumb it is, if you look at it right.  You don’t have to go anywhere, get drunk, or do anything like that to have fun.  That is the key here.

You can be humorous, upbeat, positive and happy no matter what other people choose around you.  They can all be depressed and sad, and you can have a different attitude.  This creates fun in anyone, in any situation.  You can see the humor.  You can see that people are strange, but not freak out or space out like most people do in this situation.

Now, if someone or something is definitely making you very unhappy, then try to change the situation, go home, go away, do something else to change it as best you can.

FUN IS THE IDEA THAT LIFE IS TO BE ENJOYED

This is somewhat like the first definition of fun above.  But it applies even to the most horrendous things, as much as you do it.  Maybe you are married to a bear (meaning a difficult person, hopefully not an animal, which means a very difficult person).  

Maybe you have a rotten job right now, and haven’t found another one yet.  Maybe you are disabled and you can only sit in front of a television set all day, and you don’t like commercials.  Maybe you are rich but you are bored silly.  Maybe you can’t have sex any more and you feel life is not worth it for that silly reason.  If you want to have fun, none of this can matter too much.  Life is to be enjoyed, no matter what.  It’s a tall order, admittedly, but it can be done.

Life is all there is, and it will be over in a flash.  Really, it will be.  So you might as well enjoy it.  Sitting around moping, wishing you were someone else, somewhere else, with someone you can’t be with – it is all stupid, and...

FUN IS NOT ACTING STUPID

This is very important.  FUN IS NOT STUPID.  Many people make this mistake.  Many people think that having fun is getting drunk, getting high on a drug, having a lot of sex, dressing up sexy, getting a tattoo or a body piercing in their navel or elsewhere, swearing a lot, going to the bars, getting naked somewhere, and some such thing.  This is not fun. 

This is stupid and harms the body.  Don’t harm the body.  This is very important.  You will find you need the body.  If you harm it or even endanger it by going to a bar or a movie not dressed well, you could get raped or mugged or something like that, and that is not fun.  So keep your mind sharp and clear, keep the body covered up, ladies particularly, and don’t be stupid, because FUN IS NOT STUPID.